We all have
days when we want to run away and relax on a tropical beach. But, unless you’re
actually going to drop everything and become a travel writer, it’s probably not
a realistic escape plan. A better one is to look at how you motivate yourself.
Sometimes it’s
really easy to persevere. However, motivation can all too easily slip away.
Especially if we fail at something.
Failing is not
a bad thing in itself, if you learn from your mistakes. But there’s a
difference between trying and learning, and just throwing in the towel as soon
as things get tough or scary.
Here are 6
tactics to help you keep the faith and moving forward when you're on the verge
of giving up.
See Doubt as
a Positive
Doubt and
skepticism don't have to result in paralysis. Instead, a healthy dose of
skepticism forces us to confront and validate our beliefs, ideas and choices
over and over. It's a gut check that helps ensure you that you are on the right
track.
Find Your
“Whys”
Find the value
in what you’re doing, to identify why you want to keep going. Is it helping you
to reach a larger goal, or benefiting others in some way? You’ll feel more
invested and enthusiastic when you can see the benefits and the meaning of a
task.
Contraction Leads
to Expansion
Opportunity
follows disappointment and expansion follows contraction. In my experience, as
long as I keep my faith and stay focused on the goal, the dips always lead to
my greatest expansion and achievement.
Stick to Your
Convictions
What do you
believe in? Knowing the answer to this question and being truly committed to
your values will help you stay focused on the big picture. Let your convictions
be your guide and sustain you through tough times.
Make a
Schedule and Stick to It
Staying
motivated doesn’t just happen. We have to set our intentions and choose
behaviors that will keep us on the right track. They provide a vital structure
that will keep us going, regardless of how we’re thinking or feeling on any
given day – almost automating the difficult thing we have to do.
Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do,” so set dedicated times to work on your goals. Put them in your calendar, and don’t book anything else in for those times.
Find the Good
in Experiences
Every
experience is an opportunity to learn. Victories are exciting, but there is
also something to learn from challenges and mistakes. When you find yourself
frustrated, ask yourself, what is there for me to learn from this experience?
How does this experience serve me?
We all have
days when we lose motivation, but don’t be too hard on yourself when they
happen.
It can be
difficult sometimes to judge whether we need to push a bit harder, or are just
banging our head against a wall. Check your purpose, your chances of success,
whether you really have to do it all yourself, and what you’re going to get out
of it.
You don’t have
to wait for motivation to hit you. But you do have to work to stay on track –
take action, organize your goals, and be diligent with your routine. And be
flexible: we often give up on goals because we’re unwilling to compromise our
original expectations. Always think about your “whys” and what you’re learning.
And when something’s not right, feel free to change direction.
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