It’s that time
of year where many people begin thinking about everything they have to be
thankful for. Although it’s nice to count your blessings on Thanksgiving, being
thankful throughout the year could have tremendous benefits on your quality of
life.
In fact,
gratitude may be one of the most overlooked tools that we all have access to
every day. Cultivating gratitude doesn’t cost any money and it certainly
doesn’t take much time, but the benefits are enormous.
Research
reveals gratitude can have these benefits:
1. Gratitude
opens the door to more relationships. Not only does saying “thank you”
constitute good manners, but showing appreciation can help you win new friends.
A recent study found that thanking a new acquaintance makes them more likely to
seek an ongoing relationship. So whether you thank a stranger for holding the
door or you send a quick thank-you note to that co-worker who helped you with a
project, acknowledging other people’s contributions can lead to new
opportunities.
2. Gratitude
improves health. Grateful people experience fewer aches and pains and they
report feeling healthier than other people. Gratitude reduces a multitude of
toxic emotions, ranging from envy and resentment to frustration and regret. Not
surprisingly, grateful people are also more likely to take care of their
health. They exercise more often and are
more likely to attend regular check-ups with their doctors, which is likely to
contribute to further longevity.
3. Gratitude
improves self-esteem and mental strength. A researcher found that gratitude
increased athlete’s self-esteem, which is an essential component to optimal
performance. For years, research has shown gratitude not only reduces stress,
but it may also play a major role in overcoming trauma. Recognizing all you
have to be thankful for – even during the worst times of your life – fosters
resilience. Other studies have shown that gratitude reduces social comparisons.
Rather than becoming resentful toward people who have more money or better jobs
– which is a major factor in reduced self-esteem- grateful people are able to
appreciate other people’s accomplishments.
We all have the
ability and opportunity to cultivate gratitude. Simply take a few moments to
focus on all that you have – rather than complain about all the things you
think you deserve. Developing an
“attitude of gratitude” is one of the simplest ways to improve your
satisfaction with life.
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