Presidents’
Day, celebrated every third Monday in February, was originally intended to
remember George Washington’s birthday. It has since become an occasion to
celebrate all American presidents. Great lessons can be learned from looking
back through history and many leadership principles are timeless.
As mature
adults, we all understand how difficult it can be finding success when we keep
making excuses.
After reading
many studies and articles on the subject, I’ve come up with these conclusions:
1. It’s easier
to feel acquitted of our failure, if we can come up with a good enough excuse.
2. It’s
psychologically easier to live with our past, if we have justifiable reasons
for our failure.
3. It’s easier
to get people to overlook failure, if we come up with an acceptable excuse.
4. It’s so much
easier to shift the blame to something else, rather than accept it as our own.
It seems to me
that the more we make excuses for ourselves, the more we will NOT build a
positive self-image. Self-image is not built by success at every turn. Our self-image
is empowered by accepting, and then dealing with our own short comings and
failures.
Making excuses
may make us feel better, but they will not make us become better!
If we want to fail at every turn, then we should go on making excuses for ourselves and those around us. However, if we want to succeed, we must be willing to stop the blame game and personally accept accountability for our own actions. Sometimes we need to squash those excuse ridden thoughts and emotions.
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