Whether you
realize it or not, if you're a leader, your employees are watching every move
you make. Good leaders must lead by example. By walking your talk, you become a
person others want to follow. When leaders say one thing, but do another, they
erode trust--a critical element of productive leadership.
Leading by
example not only holds the managers to strict standards but it requires a great
deal of interpersonal communication skills. Those who lead by example need to
be able to form strong human relationships with those that they need. This can
be a challenge for any manager, especially those who aren’t exactly natural
born leaders. The good news is, there are several proven strategies that can
help any manager, in virtually any field to master the often tricky art of
leading by example.
Listen to
your team. Practice
patience and try to not interrupt when someone is talking. Be attentive, make
eye contact, nod and ask pertinent questions. Ask questions. Seek to
understand. You’ll receive valuable insights and set a tone that encourages
healthy dialogue.
Roll up your
sleeves. Show that
when a job needs to be done, everyone at every level needs to chip in and
participate. Do your part, and make sure that what needs to get done, gets
done.
Establish an
impeccable standard of excellence. The
best way to establish a standard is by modeling the expected behavior yourself.
Showcase excellence. When your actions have the potential to affect everyone
around you and the bottom line, don't dabble in mediocrity. Reflecting
excellence is critical to exercising effective leadership.
Be a
fearless problem solver. Instead
of freaking out in a bad situation, focus on ways to deal with problems. Be
fearless and create solutions. How a leader reacts in a bad situation speaks a
lot about his personality. So, make sure that you create a good example for
others.
Take
responsibility. Blame
costs you your credibility, keeps team members on the defensive and ultimately
sabotages real growth. Great leaders know when to accept that mistakes have
been made and take it upon themselves to fix them.
Praise
improvement, even minor improvements. Psychologists
discovered long ago that when you positively reinforce a desired behavior,
people are far more likely to repeat that behavior. Most people want to do the
right thing, which means you will find far more success in leading a team if
you focus on using positive reinforcement rather than negative actions like
threats and fear tactics.
When you lead
by example your behavior becomes a catalyst for people’s trust and faith in
you. And it also emphasizes what you stand for. Leading by example shows people
exactly what you expect and gives them living proof that it can be done. On a
deeper level, leading by example and being as good as your words builds trust.
It’s a sign that you take what you say seriously so they can, too.
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