When you’re
pursuing a worthwhile goal it’s almost inevitable that at some point you’ll
think one or more of the following:
- “This is harder than I thought it would be.”
- “Why is this taking so long?”
- “I’m getting nowhere with this.”
- “I keep failing at this goal.”
- “I can’t do this. What was I thinking?”
And when you do
have one—or more—of these thoughts, it’s very likely that you’ll want to give
up.
Not giving up
is a mindset. And it’s a mindset that you can adopt. What you do need is to
constantly tell yourself the following:
- I persist when things get tough.
- I will either find a way or make one.
- Every problem has a solution, and I have the perfect ability to find it.
- Every day I gain more knowledge and insight about what works and what doesn’t, which means I’m getting stronger and wiser.
- Setbacks are temporary.
- I will find a way through this.
- Think! What’s the best thing to do now?
Having an “I
won’t quit” mindset will make it much easier for you to persist—and refuse to
give up—until you achieve your goal.
When you feel
like quitting, look at all your reasons why your goal is so important to you.
If need be, add even more reasons why. The greater the quantity of reasons—and
the stronger the reasons—that you have to keep going, the more likely it is
that you won’t quit.
Refusing to
give up doesn’t mean that you should simply keep doing the same thing over and
over again. If the approach that you’re currently using isn’t working, try a
different approach. Continue in this way until you find a method, technique, or
strategy that does work.
When you want
to quit, push yourself to keep taking consistent action toward the achievement
of your goal. Even if you haven’t seen results yet, you never know what may be
happening underneath the surface.
Just because
you can’t see anything yet, although you’ve been working on your goal for
awhile, this doesn’t mean that nothing is happening. You may be closer to
achieving your dream than you think. Don’t give up, when you could be just
moments away from succeeding. Keep chipping away.
Achieving
large, hairy goals isn’t easy. Somewhere along the way it’s very likely that
you’ll want to quit. But when you feel like quitting, don’t give up. Live your
best life by refusing to quit.
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