According to Tom, “the single most significant strategic strength that an organization can have is not a good strategic plan, but a commitment to strategic listening on the part of every member of the organization: strategic listening to frontline employees, strategic listening to vendors, to customers.”
1. Facts
2. Meaning
3. Feelings
4. Intention
For example, “The house is burning” is a simple, straight-forward statement. But those four words — depending on how they are said — may mean:
· “A residential structure is being consumed by flames.” (Facts)
· “The house we’re in is on fire.” (Meaning)
· “Ahhhh!!!!” (Feelings)
· “Run for your life.” (Intention)
People want to: Convey information.
Our task is to: Listen for details and clarify.
We need to ask: “Who? What? Where? When? Why?
How?”
Our goal is to: Picture the situation as the person is
describing it.
Level 2 Meaning
People want to: Make themselves understood.
Our task is to: Listen for the big picture; summarize and
paraphrase.
We need to ask: “Am I understanding you correctly?”
“Is this what you’re getting at?”
Our goal is to: Understand what the person means —
and make the other person feel
understood.
Level 3 Feelings
People want to: Connect on an emotional level.
Our task is to: Listen with empathy; pay attention to
body language and tone of voice.
We need to ask: “How does this make you feel?”
“It sounds to me like you’re feeling…”
Our goal is to: Recognize how the person is feeling —
and make the other person feel
connected.
Level 4 Intention
People want to: Get their needs met.
Our task is to: Listen for wants and needs; focus on
solutions, action steps, and outcomes.
We need to ask: “What do you want to have happen?”
“What would help you in this situation?”
“What can you/we do about it?”
Our goal is to: Know what the person wants to achieve.
By understanding what people want to say, what we are to do, and what follow-up questions to ask we can accomplish the goal of hearing the complete message. Whether you are a team leader or a team member listening is a significant part of your role. Don’t be an eighteen-second manager. Take the time to listen strategically to employees, vendors, and customers.
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